You are in love, everything is OK, your eyes are locked on his, he holds you tight and … and in a couple of days nothing happens … he seems to be far then ever before. Why? Even experienced and beautiful girls often do mistakes in the initial stages of dating. It takes a person only 10 minutes to make all the necessary judgements about whether or he or she is going to know him or her better. So you’d better make the right first impression and avoid top 5 date mistakes:
- Too sexy … or too forward
Don’t be too sexy or too active simple tooo and don’t make him feel depressed. Forget about sex and flirt, try your best and behave yourself as a decent and good girl. He wants to know a bit about you as a person.
- Laughing all the time
Don’t laugh all meeting long, he will think you are lack of intelligence and the only one thing you can think of is dancing or something even shallower. He’ll get bored in a nick of time.
- Drinking
It’s not exactly the way good and serious girls behave: giggling and drinking have no relation to magic and long-term dating.
- Trying to appear very independent
Don’t let him understand how independent you are even if it is true. Of course, rich and independent women look sexy, but they seem to have no feelings. There is no use to look like an ice queen.
- Whispering with girl mates
Forget about whispering something to your friends all the time. You can make him furious since he will thin that you don’t respect him and it is boring here.

@Angel – I think the reason it only takes 10 mins to make those judgments, is because we’re speaking constantly – with our body language. There’s a write up about how this works here: The science of flirting with body language
Patrick